GRACE KIM: HOW THERAPY SPARKED A PRIVATE PRACTICE | EP 179

Grace Kim: How Therapy Sparked a Private Practice | Ep 179

Have you ever had a therapy experience so powerful that it clarified exactly how you want to help others? Has a specific modality inspired your niche in private practice? That’s exactly what happened to Grace Kim, whose experience shaped her path as a Canadian private practice therapist. 

Once she experienced EMDR therapy, Grace changed her career path, and the journey that she’s taken has been nothing short of exciting and fulfilling. 

In this podcast episode, Jules and Grace discuss her journey from social work to Canadian private practice, and share some advice on networking, hiring, and how to assess your situation to decide when you should leap into private practice yourself!


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MEET GRACE

Grace Kim, MSW, RSW, is the founder of REM Therapy Services, a small and growing group practice based in Markham, ON. The practice specializes in EMDR therapy, supporting high-achieving yet heavy-hearted individuals, as well as those who feel stuck in the past. REM Therapy Services offers EMDR intensives for clients seeking faster relief in therapy, along with clinical consultations for trauma therapists learning the EMDR modality. With a vision to grow as expert providers and educators of EMDR, REM Therapy Services is committed to serving both the local community and beyond.

Learn more about Grace on her practice website, Psychology Today, and Instagram profiles.

In This Episode

  • How Grace became a therapist 
  • Taking off the golden handcuffs 
  • Going from client to therapist  
  • Building up a solo private practice 
  • Grace’s advice to listeners

How Grace became a therapist

‘Becoming a therapist was not my original goal going into grad school. I come from a Master of Social Work background, so I had gone into grad school thinking and planning that at the end I was going to pursue a career in clinical social work … hospital social work specifically.’ – Grace Kim

As Grace explains, her journey to becoming a therapist and running a group private practice in Canada today has been a winding road. 

While she started grad school with a certain plan in mind, by her graduation, the plan had changed. At first, after graduation, she worked in child welfare, community mental health, and in some hospitals. 

‘Throughout [those] years post-grad, strangely enough, an opportunity opened up for me to move into the therapy world with a group practice that was made up of largely clinical social workers with a medical setting background.’ – Grace Kim

Taking off the golden handcuffs 

Grace joined this group private practice in 2018, six years after she graduated. It was a scary transition for her at first, going from a secure, salary job to a billable hours-based income. 

‘It was definitely risky because I was used to cushy benefits and a comfortable vacation policy with time off, and things like that, so it was scary to go from knowing predictable income to, “Oh, I only get paid if I work hours, and it is scalable based on how hard I work.”’ – Grace Kim 

At that time, however, Grace was newly married and living in a home with her partner where they enjoyed dual income streams, so the risk of going into a financial red zone, so to speak, was low. 

‘I was like, “Okay, one of us has a stable salary, it’s okay if I take on this risk and maybe forfeit that stable income for some risk, some financial instability, [but also] leeway and grace period to grow and take a pay cut as my caseload was building” during that time.’ – Grace Kim

Jules’ tip: if you are not in a position to share expenses with another person, build up an emergency fund to the amount of about six months to give yourself that same sense of financial security to leap into private practice.

Going from client to therapist 

In 2018 and early 2019, EMDR therapy entered into Grace’s professional picture, which changed her path and steered her more towards the idea of opening up her own Canadian private practice after she had a strong personal experience with it. 

‘I had tried EMDR therapy out as a client first, and quite frankly, it changed my life, and subsequently changed the course of my career.’ – Grace Kim

After Grace first experienced EMDR therapy, it sparked her interest in offering it as a modality herself as a therapist for other clients. 

She started practicing it, saw great results, and got strong, positive feedback: all of which encouraged her to nurture her own small side private practice while still working for the other, larger group practice. 

‘I had started to build up in the side this [small] size, private caseload in addition to the referrals that were coming into the group … I know there was a non-compete clause, however I was allowed to run this tiny private practice on my own, because the clients I was getting privately had nothing to do with the clients that were provided to me through the group. The group was aware … and they were supportive.’ – Grace Kim

Building up a solo private practice

Grace’s milestone and goal to quit working in the other group practice and go full-time on her own was when she had 10 clients per week. 

That was what she was working towards, and once she hit that goal – and she did – she made the jump. 

‘I did succeed in that goal, and I was consistently seeing 10 clients a week, and I thought, “Okay, this is the most I can handle in terms of a caseload while still with the group practice. If I want to continue growing my own thing, I can no longer sustain the amount of work that I was doing” … I gave myself a number … crunched the numbers … And then I officially left the group practice in 2021!’ – Grace Kim 

Now, Grace has recently hired her first associate and is developing her solo practice into a group practice! She knew that it would require an intentional decision to step into the role of a leader and a boss, so she thought long and hard about it before hiring her associate. 

‘I did enjoy teaching, I did enjoy working with people, I saw leadership qualities within myself, and I knew that about myself, and I said, “You know what, I think I could. I think it makes sense”, and the more I thought about it, I discovered, “No, I do want this. It’s not because it’s just the next logical thing in my career.”’ – Grace Kim

Grace’s advice to listeners 

Networking is your friend! Or it can be, if it’s not already. You can be a wonderful, highly skilled clinician, but you need to get your name and your practice’s name out there. 

Connect with other brilliant therapists to plug into the referral and sharing network. The more we support each other, the more clients get seen, the more good work gets done, and the more we all change our communities for the better.


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Resources Mentioned and Useful Links:

Alexina Picard: Starting a Private Practice After Graduation | EP 178 

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About Jules Smith

Jules Smith, MEd, RCT, CCC is a registered Counselling Therapist who owns a group private practice in Halifax, Nova Scotia. They are also the owner of Fearless Practice Consulting and hosts the Fearless Practice podcast. Through the Fearless Practice podcast, they provide invaluable insights and practical advice on starting and growing a successful Canadian private practice. 

Jules also has written articles for the Canadian Counselling and Psychotherapy association. You can learn more at www.ccpa-accp.ca/blog/.